Meghan Markle’s Ex Trevor Engelson Could ‘Barely Contain His Anger’ After Her Post-divorce Action – Inside Her Past

Long before her life in the royal spotlight, Meghan Markle married Hollywood producer Trevor Engelson. Their relationship quietly unraveled behind the scenes, and the sudden split reportedly stunned not only Trevor but also their friends and family.

Meghan Markle and Trevor Engelson attended the Coach Legacy Photo Exhibit by Reed Krakoff in East Hampton, New York, on August 26, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle and Trevor Engelson attended the Coach Legacy Photo Exhibit by Reed Krakoff in East Hampton, New York, on August 26, 2006. | Source: Getty Images

What followed was a split that continued to cast ripples beneath her public ascent, revealing a lesser-known story of emotional fallout, media scrutiny, and decisive actions that surprised those closest to her.

Meghan Markle at The Paley Center for Media's Paley Honors Fall Gala Honoring Tyler Perry on December 4, 2024, in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle at The Paley Center for Media’s Paley Honors Fall Gala Honoring Tyler Perry on December 4, 2024, in Beverly Hills, California | Source: Getty Images

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Meghan Markle & Trevor Engelson’s Early Years

The former pair met in 2004. While Meghan is an actress, Trevor is a producer known for his work in films including “License to Wed” (2007), “All About Steve” (2009), and “Remember Me” (2010.

After several years of dating, the couple married in a beachfront ceremony in Ocho Rios, Jamaica, in September 2011. Meghan was 30 years old at the time. However, when she landed her breakout role in the TV show “Suits,” the dynamic of their relationship shifted dramatically.

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The Impact of Distance on Their Marriage

While Meghan filmed “Suits” in Toronto, Trevor remained in Los Angeles. Over time, the distance put a strain on their relationship, and their time together became increasingly limited. Eventually, Meghan filed for divorce, citing “irreconcilable differences.”

Meghan Markle as Rachel Zane in "Suits" Season 2 on April 20, 2012. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle as Rachel Zane in “Suits” Season 2 on April 20, 2012. | Source: Getty Images

At first, no specific reason was publicly given for the split, since they had been together for seven years before marrying. However, later reports suggested that the demands of Meghan’s career in Toronto and Trevor’s work in Los Angeles played a significant role in their separation.

Meghan Markle in "Suits" Season 2 on June 2, 2012. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle in “Suits” Season 2 on June 2, 2012. | Source: Getty Images

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Royal biographer Andrew Morton, in his 2018 book, “Meghan: A Hollywood Princess,” described just how unexpected the split was. “The sad news, in the summer of 2013, came as a bolt from the blue. Everyone in their circle was genuinely shocked.” This apparently included Trevor’s parents, David and Leslie.

Yet, it wasn’t only the surprise of the divorce itself that left an impression. It was how Meghan chose to end the relationship that stirred deeper emotions.

Trevor Engelson and Meghan Markle attend the Anti-Defamation League Entertainment Industry Awards Dinner honoring Ryan Kavanaugh on October 11, 2011, in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Engelson and Meghan Markle attend the Anti-Defamation League Entertainment Industry Awards Dinner honoring Ryan Kavanaugh on October 11, 2011, in Beverly Hills, California. | Source: Getty Images

How Trevor Reportedly Reacted to Their Split

According to Morton’s biography, Meghan ended their union in an unexpectedly abrupt manner. Instead of meeting Trevor in person, she reportedly returned her diamond wedding and engagement rings to him by registered mail.

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Those closest to Trevor described how the emotional aftermath of the split lingered long after the divorce. According to Morton’s biography, he could “barely contain his anger.”

Trevor Engelson attends the "Snowfall" final season premiere at The Ted Mann Theater on February 15, 2023, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Engelson attends the “Snowfall” final season premiere at The Ted Mann Theater on February 15, 2023, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Friends also recalled that the usually laid-back producer reacted with “cold fury” whenever Meghan’s name was mentioned. He refused to speak about her publicly, telling those who asked, “I have zero to say about her.” One friend remarked that Trevor felt like “a piece of something stuck to the bottom of her shoe” after the marriage ended.

The breakup didn’t just affect Trevor. Morton also noted that it strained Meghan’s long-standing friendship with Ninaki Priddy, her former best friend and maid of honor. Priddy reportedly chose to distance herself, later describing Meghan as “very calculated in the way she handled people and relationships.”

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Meghan Markle attends the TV Guide Magazine Hot List Party on November 12, 2012, in West Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle attends the TV Guide Magazine Hot List Party on November 12, 2012, in West Hollywood, California. | Source: Getty Images

As Meghan became more famous, the media’s fixation on her past relationships—particularly her marriage to Trevor—persisted, setting the stage for even more intense scrutiny.

Meghan Markle attends USA Network's A Suits Story Fashion Show on June 12, 2012, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

Meghan Markle attends USA Network’s A Suits Story Fashion Show on June 12, 2012, in New York. | Source: Getty Images

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Attention Focused on Meghan’s Previous Marriage

When Meghan began dating Prince Harry, the British press quickly turned its focus to her personal history. Her divorce from Trevor became a frequent topic of speculation, often framed as a point of controversy.

In his 2023 memoir, “Spare,” Harry reflected on how the media fixated obsessively on Meghan’s past, particularly her status as a divorcée. He recalled how even reputable outlets, like The Telegraph, scrutinized every angle of whether he was “legally able to marry a (gasp) divorcée.”

Prince Harry's memoir "Spare." | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry’s memoir “Spare.” | Source: Getty Images

The Duke of Sussex expressed frustration at how the press delved into Meghan’s previous marriage while conveniently ignoring that divorce was hardly unprecedented in the royal family. As he pointed out, his father was “currently married to a divorcée,” and his aunt, Princess Anne, was “a remarried divorcée.”

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This relentless coverage would soon escalate to a level that drew an unprecedented response from Kensington Palace.

Prince Harry at The Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service on May 8, 2024, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry at The Invictus Games Foundation 10th Anniversary Service on May 8, 2024, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

Kensington Palace Pushes Back Against Media Harassment

On November 8, 2016, Kensington Palace released an official statement on behalf of Harry, highlighting the extent of the harassment Meghan was facing.

The palace statement opened by acknowledging the public’s long-standing curiosity about Harry’s private life but emphasized that the level of intrusion Meghan was facing had crossed a line. It described how Meghan had been targeted by articles featuring racial undertones and sexist commentary.

Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, at the Commonwealth Service on Commonwealth Day at Westminster Abbey on March 11, 2019, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry and Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, at the Commonwealth Service on Commonwealth Day at Westminster Abbey on March 11, 2019, in London, England. | Source: Getty Images

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It further revealed that her mother had been followed and harassed by photographers outside her home. Reporters had even attempted to illegally access Meghan’s residence, while financial offers were made to her former partners and close associates in exchange for personal information.

The palace also addressed claims that such scrutiny was simply part of being in the public eye. Harry firmly rejected this idea. As the statement read, “This is not a game—it is her life and his.”

Prince Harry speaks onstage about digital responsibility at EAN University on August 15, 2024, in Colombia. | Source: Getty Images

Prince Harry speaks onstage about digital responsibility at EAN University on August 15, 2024, in Colombia. | Source: Getty Images

While much of the media fixated on Meghan’s past, some familiar with the royal family offered a more supportive perspective. Former royal butler Paul Burrell suggested that the late Princess Diana would have been welcoming toward her. “Yes, she would have loved Meghan. She would have embraced her,” Paul stated.

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Princess Diana in 1983. | Source: Getty Images

Princess Diana in 1983. | Source: Getty Images

As Meghan grappled with mounting public scrutiny, Trevor had quietly stepped away from the spotlight, focusing instead on his career and private life.

Trevor Engelson at "Snowfall" Season 2 in 2018, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Engelson at “Snowfall” Season 2 in 2018, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Moves On

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While Meghan settled into royal life, Trevor quietly continued to build his career and personal life away from the spotlight. He briefly dated reality TV personality Bethenny Frankel, though their relationship later transitioned into a business partnership.

He later met nutritionist Tracey Kurland, and in a notable coincidence, proposed to her just two weeks after Meghan’s royal wedding in May 2018. The couple married the following year in May 2019 at the Rosewood Miramar Beach resort in Montecito, California.

Trevor Engelson and Tracey Kurland arrive at the premiere of FX's "Snowfall" Season 2 on July 16, 2018, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Trevor Engelson and Tracey Kurland arrive at the premiere of FX’s “Snowfall” Season 2 on July 16, 2018, in Los Angeles, California. | Source: Getty Images

Over time, they welcomed two daughters, Ford and Sienna, and in February 2025, Trevor shared the news on social media that they had welcomed their third child, a son named Logan Stanford Engelson.

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In the years since their split, Trevor has built a family of his own and appears to be enjoying parenthood, while Meghan Markle continues her life with Harry. Both have moved forward, each focused on their family life.

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